Integrity - 5

I was just thinking what does it mean to be honest with people, and what does it mean to show your intergrity.
Many people are laughing at me or reproach me of being too honest sometimes, but what does it mean too honest?
Sometimes we just tell to the people what they dont wanna hear(although it's truth), and is it the way how to show our integrity? Is it how the Bilble prescribed us to do by saying: Do not lie...
I was thinking of it a few days ago and I realised that there are 2 ways of showing your intergrity: positive and negative....
For example, I liked the boy and he doesnt know I liked him and I try to be sensire and honest and tell to him about that, without lie, that's the positive side, but if somebody did something not well, or we didntlike something or somebody and we come up to this person and say I have nothing to hide from you: you are so..so so.... and I dont like that and so on....
Is it the thing we call integrity? Is it really needed and what will bring to us and to this person...The possible result we all know...And it'll not be the best... It's just the lack of empathy ( we dont care how the person will feel or think) and when we say that we are so proud of ourselves of being sensire... What forwe need that negative integrity? and do we really need it?
I realised it on wednesday evening, and I myself behaved not once in this way, even by writing this blog... And I started to observe my little lyings and truth what I say....
I told to Erkan about my plan to go to Austria, I watched the movie "nothing but the truth", the teenagers comedy, but it touched me till the heart...
Being sensire to people really brings you much, but if you are sensire in the positive way,
I have again the problems with visa, as I wanted to go to Conference in Austria, but the Consul called me for interview, I have a week and my mum told me to prepare, but I will not...
What do I have to hide? Nothing.... I'll just tell him the truth and let it be his decision....
Truth rules...
We'll see if it is right ;)